So if you child has too much homework, then ask the I’m exhausted by how stupid everyone is getting shirt and I will buy this teachers what they do during class. If they spend most of the time teaching, tell them that young kids cannot absorb all that materials in a long lesson. They are better off given short lessons, and do the homework on their own during class. After all, homework is to show the teachers what the student absorb, and they are best to do in class so the teachers get immediate feedback. This also explains why kids become narcissistic themselves, they imitate their parents or the reaction to emotions to get approval and thus identity from them. Accepting your childhood wasn’t a warm one is accepting your own default in personality and being handed a chance to break the circle. When you don’t get approved by your narcissistic parents, you are forced into an identity that is as small as possible. Limitation of yourself feels the safest but prevents emotial growth. Growing up, trying to become your own personality, leads to very natural conflict with your parents. Narcissistic people do not handle conflict, they surpress it. Thus they surpress natural behavior in themselves and their kids. Trying to become narcissistic is a symptom of a cold and empty childhood, For myself, I try to find warm and giving people in my context, creating positive emotions to balance out the world view of my childhood. Tjis also means limiting all contact with people who do not contribute to that. In my case this means avoiding my parents as much as possible. In 2011 my parents adopted my younger brother. I am adopted as well, and my parents have been doing foster care since 2003. Anyways, they adopted my younger brother and it all seemed well. We were a perfectly happy family. But when he entered his teenage years, his personality took a downward spiral. He was malicious, he was violent, and he was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Towards me, my siblings, and both my parents. He would torture animals, and the younger girls we later adopted. He would lash out on everyone, often getting physical and making threats. He would tell his friends about his “abusive” home, and lie about everything he did, even if it wasn’t a big deal. He started stealing money from everyone in the home, hanging out with sketchy people, and being a negative person to be around.
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My parents would give him chance after chance after chance to get back on track with his life, but it never worked. He would say he was going to stop, he was going to get better. It never worked, but my parents were too loving and supportive to see what was to come. On my 16th birthday, all hell broke lose. We had gone out to eat, went shopping around as a family, and went antique shopping something I love more than anything. He had been off edge and crabby all day, something that by this time wasn’t out of the I’m exhausted by how stupid everyone is getting shirt and I will buy this ordinary and seemed distant. When we got home, the family did presents a family tradition is to hide the presents from the birthday kid and see if they can find them and he was scowling and saying rude things to everybody. Of course, my father pulled him aside and asked him what was wrong, and when my brother responded, he did it with a knife. Me and my siblings were in the living room laughing and chatting, when we heard the screaming. In ran my mother and older sister. I was in the living room trying to keep the little girls away from the scene. I’ll never forget what I saw when I finally entered that kitchen. My father was on the floor in a pool of blood, holding his head in his hands, blood oozing between his fingers. my sister on the ground with my brother trying to talk him out of what he did, and my mother standing in the corner in shock. My younger brother on the floor cutting his wrists and crying. It was a horrible sight. My father got up and cleaned himself, and we soon after called the cops. On my 16th birthday, I was questioned by the police. My family was broken apart. The story is that my brother got angry over my father telling him to chill out for my birthday. My brother then grabbed a knife and stabbed my father in the temple (the angels were watching) when my sister and mother came in. the came to find my father and brother wrestling on the ground, my brother trying to stab my father in the kidneys. He tried to swing the knife across my sister’s neck, the tip of the blade barely gliding across her neck. My mother grabbed it out of his hands without thought, and the police took it as evidence. She says she had so much adrenaline that she doesn’t remember doing it, think it was my sister who did it, and my sister saying no, as she was too scared to. that was when I came in and saw the scene.